
Memory & Dementia
How Do We Treat Dementia?
Amarish Dave, DO explains why dementia treatment depends on the cause, stage, symptoms, health risks, safety needs, and goals of each patient and family.
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Agitation is common in people living with dementia. It can include restlessness, pacing, irritability, yelling, resisting care, repetitive questioning, or becoming unusually upset. An important first step is to ask: “What might this person be trying to communicate?”
Written and medically reviewed by Amarish Dave, DO, board-certified neurologist. This page is educational and does not replace an individual medical evaluation.
A person with dementia may no longer be able to clearly explain that they are in pain, frightened, hungry, tired, uncomfortable, constipated, overstimulated, or confused. Behavior can be a form of communication, so the first response is often to look for the unmet need or trigger behind it.
Agitation can sometimes be a response to something happening around or inside the person. Possible triggers include:
Addressing the underlying problem may sometimes reduce the behavior without medication.
Trying to prove that someone with dementia is wrong can increase frustration. Instead:
The goal is not to win an argument. The goal is to reduce distress.
People with dementia may become more anxious when they do not understand what is happening. Consistent routines can make the environment more predictable and reduce potential triggers.
Scheduled bathroom visits may be especially helpful when communication or recognition is difficult. Learn practical ways to manage urinary incontinence in dementia.
Calming activities should be matched to the person's abilities, interests, and preferences. Depending on the individual, options might include:
Potential causes can include:
Medications may sometimes be considered when agitation is severe, persistent, causes significant distress, or creates a risk of harm. Medication should not automatically be the first response to every episode of agitation.
Treatment decisions need to consider the cause of the behavior, severity of symptoms, type of dementia, other medical conditions, current medications, and potential risks and benefits. Antipsychotic medications used for behavioral symptoms in older adults with dementia have important risks and carry an FDA boxed warning regarding increased mortality. Medication decisions therefore require individualized medical supervision. Learn more about how dementia is treated.
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Additional practical caregiver resources are available in the Illinois Dementia Guide.
The Illinois Dementia Guide provides free, practical guidance for Illinois families navigating memory concerns, dementia evaluation, caregiving and planning.
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